It is sad that you try to help people and they use it to "buy women." I seriously doubt NOW will come out and chastise these individuals. The debit cards should have had restrictions. "These cards can only be used for gas, food or toiletries."
On the heels of a report earlier this week that Atlanta area Katrina victims were using $2,000 debit cards to purchase luxury items like Louis Vuitton handbags, Houston police yesterday discovered the cards, provided by FEMA and the Red Cross, being used at local strip clubs.