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Muslim husbands must hate non-Muslim wives

But he can love her body, wealth, and skillsâ?¦

Often translated as â??Loyalty and Enmity,â?ť the little-known Islamic doctrine of walaâ?? wa baraâ?? commands Muslims never to befriend or be loyal to non-Muslims, while being clean of, disavowing and ultimately hating them.

During a question-and-answer session at an Islamic conference (see video below), the full extent of this divisive doctrine was given full expression.  Popular preacher Dr. Yassir Burhami, the vice president of the Salafi party in Egypt, explained how this doctrine must be upheld at all timesâ??even with a Muslimâ??s wife, if she happens to be a non-Muslim member of the â??People of the Book,â?ť (Christians and Jews, whom Muslim males are permitted to marry from; conversely, male Christians and Jews are strictly banned from marrying Muslim females).

When an attendee asked Burhami how Islam can allow a Muslim man to marry a non-Muslim woman and yet expect him to hate her, the sheikh responded as follows:

Whereâ??s the objection? Do all men love their wives?  How many married couples live together despite disagreements and problems? Huh? That being the case, he [Muslim husband] may love the way she [non-Muslim woman] looks, or love the way she raises the children, or love that she has money. This is why heâ??s discouraged from marrying among the People of the Bookâ??because she has no [real] religion. He is ordered to make her hate her religion while continuing marriage/sexual relations with her. This is a very standard matterâ?¦.  Of course he should tell her that he hates her religion. He must show her that he hates her because of her religion, and because she is an infidel. But if possible, treat her wellâ??perhaps that will cause her to convert to Islam. He should invite her to Islam and call her to Allah.

Dr. Burhami further used the example of rape as an analogy:

In fact, let me tell you: whoever rapes a woman, does he necessarily love her? Or is he just sleeping with her? Heâ??s sleeping with her for her bodyâ??s sake only, and he does not love her in reality, because if he loved her, he wouldnâ??t have hurt her. Therefore it is possible to have sexual relations [between a Muslim man and a Christian or Jewish woman] without love. This is possible, but as we said, he is commanded to hate her.

Next, Burhami exonerated infidel-wife-hating by quoting the Koran verses that form the cornerstone of the doctrine of Loyalty and Enmity:

Otherwise what do you do with the undisputed texts [of the Koran], such as â??Thou wilt not find any people who believe in Allah and the Last Day, loving those who resist Allah and His Messenger, even though they were their fathers or their sons, or their brothers, or their kindredâ?¦ â??O ye who believe! take not the Jews and the Christians for your friends and protectorsâ?¦â?ťÂ  [Koran 58:22 and 5:51, Yusuf Ali translation].  What do you do with such a verse? What do you do will all these verses?

Indeed, â??what do you do with all these verses?â?ť

This is the crux of the problem between so-called Islamists and so-called moderates: Islamic scripturesâ??like â??all these versesâ?ť quoted by Burhamiâ??often side with the â??radicalâ?ť (and intolerant, and hostile, and violent, and supremacist) worldview of the Islamists, leaving the moderates without much of a leg to stand on in the realm of Islamic exegesis.

When asked if a Muslim husband can at least greet his wifeâ??according to Islamâ??s prophet, Muslims are not permitted to offer greetings to non-Muslimsâ??Burhami was consistent:

When he [Muslim husband] comes home, he should not be the first to greet her. He may greet his children [because they are Muslim] or he can offer a general greeting if any other Muslims are present, meaning them by it [but allowing her to think itâ??s for her]. These are mainstream commandsâ?¦Â  She has to begin with greeting him, and then he may respond.

If this is how Islam expects the Muslim to treat his non-Muslim wife, simply because she is an â??infidel,â?ť how must it expect him to feel about non-Muslim strangersâ??like the majority of you reading this?

Not that youâ??d know it, thanks to another of Islamâ??s complementary teachings: taqiyya.

Note: To learn more about walaâ?? wa baraâ??, see Al-Qaeda leader Ayman Zawahiriâ??s seminal essay titled â??Loyalty and Enmityâ?ťâ??nearly 60 pages worthâ??which I annotated and translated years back in The Al Qaeda Reader (pgs. 63-115).  And for more on hate, see â??Muslim Prayers of Hate.â?ť

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Raymond Ibrahim, a Middle East and Islam specialist, is author of Crucified Again: Exposing Islamâ??s New War on Christians (2013) and The Al Qaeda Reader (2007). His writings have appeared in a variety of media, including the Los Angeles Times, Washington Times, Janeâ??s Islamic Affairs Analyst, Middle East Quarterly, World Almanac of Islamism, and Chronicle of Higher Education; he has appeared on MSNBC, Fox News, C-SPAN, PBS, Reuters, Al-Jazeera, NPR, Blaze TV, and CBN. Ibrahim regularly speaks publicly, briefs governmental agencies, provides expert testimony for Islam-related lawsuits, and testifies before Congress. He is a Shillman Fellow at the David Horowitz Freedom Center, a Judith Friedman Rosen Writing Fellow at the Middle East Forum, and a Media Fellow at the Hoover Institution, 2013. Ibrahimâ??s dual-backgroundâ??born and raised in the U.S. by Coptic Egyptian parents born and raised in the Middle Eastâ??has provided him with unique advantages, from equal fluency in English and Arabic, to an equal understanding of the Western and Middle Eastern mindsets, positioning him to explain the latter to the former.

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Muslim husbands must hate non-Muslim wives

Often translated as “Loyalty and Enmity,” the little-known Islamic doctrine of wala’ wa bara’ commands Muslims never to befriend or be loyal to non-Muslims, while being clean of, disavowing and ultimately hating them.

During a question-and-answer session at an Islamic conference (see video below), the full extent of this divisive doctrine was given full expression.  Popular preacher Dr. Yassir Burhami, the vice president of the Salafi party in Egypt, explained how this doctrine must be upheld at all times—even with a Muslim’s wife, if she happens to be a non-Muslim member of the “People of the Book,” (Christians and Jews, whom Muslim males are permitted to marry from; conversely, male Christians and Jews are strictly banned from marrying Muslim females).

When an attendee asked Burhami how Islam can allow a Muslim man to marry a non-Muslim woman and yet expect him to hate her, the sheikh responded as follows:

Where’s the objection? Do all men love their wives?  How many married couples live together despite disagreements and problems? Huh? That being the case, he [Muslim husband] may love the way she [non-Muslim woman] looks, or love the way she raises the children, or love that she has money. This is why he’s discouraged from marrying among the People of the Book—because she has no [real] religion. He is ordered to make her hate her religion while continuing marriage/sexual relations with her. This is a very standard matter….  Of course he should tell her that he hates her religion. He must show her that he hates her because of her religion, and because she is an infidel. But if possible, treat her well—perhaps that will cause her to convert to Islam. He should invite her to Islam and call her to Allah.

Dr. Burhami further used the example of rape as an analogy:

In fact, let me tell you: whoever rapes a woman, does he necessarily love her? Or is he just sleeping with her? He’s sleeping with her for her body’s sake only, and he does not love her in reality, because if he loved her, he wouldn’t have hurt her. Therefore it is possible to have sexual relations [between a Muslim man and a Christian or Jewish woman] without love. This is possible, but as we said, he is commanded to hate her.

Next, Burhami exonerated infidel-wife-hating by quoting the Koran verses that form the cornerstone of the doctrine of Loyalty and Enmity:

Otherwise what do you do with the undisputed texts [of the Koran], such as “Thou wilt not find any people who believe in Allah and the Last Day, loving those who resist Allah and His Messenger, even though they were their fathers or their sons, or their brothers, or their kindred… “O ye who believe! take not the Jews and the Christians for your friends and protectors…”  [Koran 58:22 and 5:51, Yusuf Ali translation].  What do you do with such a verse? What do you do will all these verses?

Indeed, “what do you do with all these verses?”

This is the crux of the problem between so-called Islamists and so-called moderates: Islamic scriptures—like “all these verses” quoted by Burhami—often side with the “radical” (and intolerant, and hostile, and violent, and supremacist) worldview of the Islamists, leaving the moderates without much of a leg to stand on in the realm of Islamic exegesis.

When asked if a Muslim husband can at least greet his wife—according to Islam’s prophet, Muslims are not permitted to offer greetings to non-Muslims—Burhami was consistent:

When he [Muslim husband] comes home, he should not be the first to greet her. He may greet his children [because they are Muslim] or he can offer a general greeting if any other Muslims are present, meaning them by it [but allowing her to think it’s for her]. These are mainstream commands…  She has to begin with greeting him, and then he may respond.

If this is how Islam expects the Muslim to treat his non-Muslim wife, simply because she is an “infidel,” how must it expect him to feel about non-Muslim strangers—like the majority of you reading this?

Not that you’d know it, thanks to another of Islam’s complementary teachings: taqiyya.

Note: To learn more about wala’ wa bara’, see Al-Qaeda leader Ayman Zawahiri’s seminal essay titled “Loyalty and Enmity”—nearly 60 pages worth—which I annotated and translated years back in The Al Qaeda Reader (pgs. 63-115).  And for more on hate, see “Muslim Prayers of Hate.”

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